Monday, February 17, 2014

The Toasting Phase


      Now ladies I am sure the title of this post does not come as unfamiliar to you, especially my Nigerian ladies. You might have even recognized it from my post on "The 90 day rule" ( READ IT HERE! ) There is always a time in dating or just when you're getting to know a man that he does just about any and everything for you. He calls you

twenty times a day just to see how you are doing, takes you wherever you want whenever you want, buys you beautiful gifts, always tells you how beautiful you are and how bad he wants you to be his. You pretty much have him wrapped around your finger. I remember during the toasting phase of my relationship, he would call me and I would just front on purpose by not picking up his call because I knew he would call back. BUT NOW?! HA!! I DEY CRAZE? I only get one ring these days lol. It sometimes baffles me why things are this way. I feel that women tend to be more committed and involved throughout the course of the entire relationship, but men tend to fall off after a few months. It's not that he doesn't love you anymore, he just now lacks the ability to express it for some reason. It almost makes one wonder whether this is even the same charming man she fell for. I don't know what it is with that toasting phase, is it like a guy code or something? All I know is that you better enjoy that phase while it lasts girl because once its over it is OVER and aint NEVER EVER coming back. ( RIP to all the lost toasting phases).


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    1. Lol and that's on a good day. Joke :p

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  2. This is sooo true!!!!! Smh!!!! But they do love u (even more I would imply). Once you get married the toasting phase or wedding bliss comes back, then goes. The same for having children. Its always an up and down thing.

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    1. Very true! I never really looked at it that way. But I would still love for it to be permanent. lol.. who knows, maybe for the fact that it is seasonal is what makes it more interesting! :)

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  3. Hahahaha very funny but true. A guy is on my case and my friend was telling me to consider. I told her don't they all start like that ? Including the ones that end up being violent. I will enjoy the phase jare

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    1. Please enjoy the phase my dear! Dont mind that your friend. Lol

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