The Toasting Phase

      Now ladies I am sure the title of this post does not come as unfamiliar to you, especially my Nigerian ladies. You might have even recognized it from my post on "The 90 day rule" ( READ IT HERE! ) There is always a time in dating or just when you're getting to know a man that he does just about any and everything for you. He calls you

twenty times a day just to see how you are doing, takes you wherever you want whenever you want, buys you beautiful gifts, always tells you how beautiful you are and how bad he wants you to be his. You pretty much have him wrapped around your finger. I remember during the toasting phase of my relationship, he would call me and I would just front on purpose by not picking up his call because I knew he would call back. BUT NOW?! HA!! I DEY CRAZE? I only get one ring these days lol. It sometimes baffles me why things are this way. I feel that women tend to be more committed and involved throughout the course of the entire relationship, but men tend to fall off after a few months. It's not that he doesn't love you anymore, he just now lacks the ability to express it for some reason. It almost makes one wonder whether this is even the same charming man she fell for. I don't know what it is with that toasting phase, is it like a guy code or something? All I know is that you better enjoy that phase while it lasts girl because once its over it is OVER and aint NEVER EVER coming back. ( RIP to all the lost toasting phases).