Cheating is something most of us have had experience with. Either we were cheated on, a friend was cheated on, a family member, or we did the cheating ourselves (yeah I see you looking down in guilt hunny). But there has always been one question lingering on in the air when it comes to cheating. In the case of cheating who should go down for it?? Ladies, should your husband's mistress go? Or should your husband go down?
When a woman is cheated on, most times the first thing we think of is how to deal with the mistress. But is dealing with the mistress really the smart thing to do?
Today I saw an article of how a Zimbabwean woman finally caught her man's cheating mistress, and boy did she go HAM! Long story short, she brutalized her, then stripped her naked and paraded her in the streets. And yes guys I'VE GOT PHOTOS!!!
So ladies I ask you. Who should go down for cheating? Did the wife do a good job? Or did she attack the wrong person? Men, what do y'all think?
The aggrieved wife should have taken her anger on her husband but I guess its easier to take your anger on the mistress. May be she is afraid of her husband or she is afraid of the consequence of attacking her husband which could lead to a break up of the marriage which she is not yet ready to face the consequence of divorce.
ReplyDeleteI couldn't agree more! It would be a shame if she actually didn't face him because she's afraid. :(
DeleteIt appears as though you are oblivious of the fact that women cheat as well, especially Houston African women. Please update your write up to reflect that. Women aren't always the victim here. I don't know if you have had enough experience to be advising people about relationships though. Shouldn't you be somewhere taking your prepharmacy courses or premed courses?
ReplyDeleteLol. I'm definitely not oblivious to that fact. Just reporting a story of a cheating husband, and asking for opinions of how people think the wife should have handled it. Thanks for visiting!
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Unless the other woman is your friend, family or acquaintance, why would you even bother yourself with her? She doesn't have any loyalty to you. Not saying that being a knowing accomplice to a cheater is okay but at the end of the day it is your spouse/partner that is supposed to curb those things. Unless he was jazzed or something lol. In which case, i'd still blame him a bit
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts exactly. Your beef is with your spouse, not a stranger.
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The Photos are just sad to look at! I mean who does that?! The man and the woman con-sensually had sex.. why should she humiliate the innocent woman all cause of that. i for one simply believe that her Husband is as guilty as the woman he engaged in sex with. But oh well.. To all man his own. Blessings!
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